I’ve recently obtained a very strong (and admittedly vain) fear of getting older. But there is really something to be said about entering a new decade of your life, with your 30’s being such a pivotal shift in lifestyle. I’ve always wanted to be in control of my own life. Through my teens and college…
I Turned 30
If We Were Having Coffee – March
I’ve been pretty silent for most of March, it’s just been a busier month than expected! If we were having coffee I’d tell you I haven’t had a lot of inspiration for writing recently. I have a couple of ideas in drafts but every time I go to write them, nothing comes to me. Maybe…
Dating A Constant Wanderer
I have a problem with staying in one place. I have a constant need to be in different places and meeting new people. The world is so big and I find it so hard to believe that we are meant to stay in one place for our whole life. How do you date a constant…
How Hopeless I Felt When I Was Single
I'm not sure why being single seems like it's the end of the world. I guess no matter how hard I looked at it, no one looked as happy when they were single as they did when they were in a relationship. There was a good chunk of time for me when being single was like torture.…
If We Were Having Coffee – February
If we were having coffee this month I’d tell you that I went to Italy for a week! I get a lot of travel anxiety pre-trip, so much so that I don’t even want to go anymore lol but it was a great trip and everyone in Italy was so lovely. It’s even better to…
Healing Your Inner Child
My favorite thing about being adult is doing all the things I didn’t get to do as a kid. I can buy the things I want, get piercings and tattoos, dye my hair pink, spend as much as I want at the carnival, go to different fun events, stay up late watching movies. More recently,…
My 10 Year Plan
My life in its current form is fine. But there are SO many things about it that I really don’t find sustainable. I’m almost 30 and I’ve learned so much about myself and what I want. But it’s really hard to put those things into action, because of all the real world things that get…
Accepting The Love You Think You Deserve
Once upon a time I got dumped and just did not know how to deal. I felt like I had failed the relationship, my boyfriend, myself. I thought I didn't really deserve to fall in love again - like I had missed my chance. And time and time again I was thrown into dating scenarios where…
Tuscany In The Winter
We’re slowly but surely getting back into international travel. Our first trip of 2023 was to Tuscany in Italy, we booked this awesome deal that included a rental car, hotel, and flights. We’ve traveled through this company multiple times before but there is still a certain thread of anxiety while traveling after COVID. The travel…
Undercover Escapism
If you’ve read any of my recent blogs you’ll know that in 2022, I’ve gotten back into reading. I was always the kid that reads, I feel like it was my only personality trait for a while. I used to blow through books, but I feel like school actually took my love of reading away.…