Then keep that question private, solely unto thyself. You know what desperate guys are like, right? Even when they’re cute, right? They’re all eeew. These are exactly the type you don’t want to attract.
I tried my hand at answering your questions for you in my opinion. Good luck!
1. Not weird, but should expect it. I don’t ask for numbers until after I meet because I don’t want to have someone’s number or for them to have mine without chemistry. 2. Safety. 3. Yes, tell them. 4. No. 5. Comes off as sleezy. 6. To me, yes. 7. So many older pics from people…ugh! 8. Right? 9. Be interested and interesting. 10. Not coffee, for you apparently. 11. Why indeed? This just happened to me. 12. Fake. 13. Good question. 14. You should always think they are. 15. You should always think you are. Don’t let anyone determine that for you. 16. What’s a bumble? 17. Take a question or similar interest their profile brought up and expand on it. 18. Tinder was icky. 19. You are female. 20. Half my age +7. So not for me, but for some. 21. Maybe, but guys are more aggressive. 22. If you want him to have your number. 23. If you feel comfortable in doing so. 24. Whatever you want. 25. Don’t settle.
I love that you answered them!! lol I honestly needed answers to these questions. And that makes sense to not trade numbers until after a date, because I have before going on a date only to find out a person is reallyyy not my type and then I’m stuck getting texts from them all the time. Also Bumble is like Tinder, but the girls are the only ones who can message first! I like it because people are more serious about dating but I hate having to message first lol don’t settle is the besttt advice, thank you for taking the time to answer :)!
Good luck with it all. I would say don’t give out your number till you’re definitely going to meet and you feel comfortable with it. Don’t rush the process. And, most importantly, trust your instincts.
Knock #25 off the list. Then you become impervious to all the dimbos who ask questions #1-24.
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lol yes but to knock #25 off the list I have to go through 1-24, it’s a vicious cycle
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Then keep that question private, solely unto thyself. You know what desperate guys are like, right? Even when they’re cute, right? They’re all eeew. These are exactly the type you don’t want to attract.
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If I were going to keep things private I wouldn’t have a blog haha but I get what you’re saying
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Uh, you do have a point, blog-wise. So, I get what you’re saying too.
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I tried my hand at answering your questions for you in my opinion. Good luck!
1. Not weird, but should expect it. I don’t ask for numbers until after I meet because I don’t want to have someone’s number or for them to have mine without chemistry. 2. Safety. 3. Yes, tell them. 4. No. 5. Comes off as sleezy. 6. To me, yes. 7. So many older pics from people…ugh! 8. Right? 9. Be interested and interesting. 10. Not coffee, for you apparently. 11. Why indeed? This just happened to me. 12. Fake. 13. Good question. 14. You should always think they are. 15. You should always think you are. Don’t let anyone determine that for you. 16. What’s a bumble? 17. Take a question or similar interest their profile brought up and expand on it. 18. Tinder was icky. 19. You are female. 20. Half my age +7. So not for me, but for some. 21. Maybe, but guys are more aggressive. 22. If you want him to have your number. 23. If you feel comfortable in doing so. 24. Whatever you want. 25. Don’t settle.
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I love that you answered them!! lol I honestly needed answers to these questions. And that makes sense to not trade numbers until after a date, because I have before going on a date only to find out a person is reallyyy not my type and then I’m stuck getting texts from them all the time. Also Bumble is like Tinder, but the girls are the only ones who can message first! I like it because people are more serious about dating but I hate having to message first lol don’t settle is the besttt advice, thank you for taking the time to answer :)!
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Dating is hard, scary work😉
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That is very true! lol
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Good luck with it all. I would say don’t give out your number till you’re definitely going to meet and you feel comfortable with it. Don’t rush the process. And, most importantly, trust your instincts.
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Thank you!! That’s great advice 🙂
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My pleasure
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Reblogged this on GUM: Growing Up Millennial.
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I wrote an article sometime last year about this same thing! We all have these kinds of thoughts while screening profiles, lol.
https://sublunarreflections.wordpress.com/2015/01/20/10-thoughts-ive-had-while-on-tinder/
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Hahah yes I love it!!
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