Things I Ask Myself While Online Dating

  1. Is it weird that they asked me out on a date before they even got my number?
  2. Why does it put me off so much when the first thing they ask is where I live?
  3. Is it rude to start ignoring them cause they’re boring?
  4. Is it rude to ignore them in the first place?
  5. Why do the words “want to chat?” creep me out so much?
  6. Is it weird that they ask for my number instantly?
  7. Why do you look cute in some of your pictures, but not others?
  9. How do I keep this conversation going?
  10. What kind of drink would I order if we went to get drinks?
  11. Why would you message me if you live 5,000 miles away?
  12. Why can’t I find you on Google?
  13. Am I just bored or actually trying to date someone?
  14. Are my pictures cute?
  15. Am I cute?
  16. Why isn’t anyone messaging me back on Bumble???
  17. What’s a good first message?
  18. Is this how boys feel on Tinder?
  19. Why am I getting SO many messages?
  20. Do you think it’ll work between us when you’re 40 and I’m 22?
  21. Am I the only girl on this app?
  22. Do I text him?
  23. Should I give him my number?
  24. What am I doing with my life?
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16 thoughts on “Things I Ask Myself While Online Dating

      1. Then keep that question private, solely unto thyself. You know what desperate guys are like, right? Even when they’re cute, right? They’re all eeew. These are exactly the type you don’t want to attract.

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  1. I tried my hand at answering your questions for you in my opinion. Good luck!
    1. Not weird, but should expect it. I don’t ask for numbers until after I meet because I don’t want to have someone’s number or for them to have mine without chemistry. 2. Safety. 3. Yes, tell them. 4. No. 5. Comes off as sleezy. 6. To me, yes. 7. So many older pics from people…ugh! 8. Right? 9. Be interested and interesting. 10. Not coffee, for you apparently. 11. Why indeed? This just happened to me. 12. Fake. 13. Good question. 14. You should always think they are. 15. You should always think you are. Don’t let anyone determine that for you. 16. What’s a bumble? 17. Take a question or similar interest their profile brought up and expand on it. 18. Tinder was icky. 19. You are female. 20. Half my age +7. So not for me, but for some. 21. Maybe, but guys are more aggressive. 22. If you want him to have your number. 23. If you feel comfortable in doing so. 24. Whatever you want. 25. Don’t settle.

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    1. I love that you answered them!! lol I honestly needed answers to these questions. And that makes sense to not trade numbers until after a date, because I have before going on a date only to find out a person is reallyyy not my type and then I’m stuck getting texts from them all the time. Also Bumble is like Tinder, but the girls are the only ones who can message first! I like it because people are more serious about dating but I hate having to message first lol don’t settle is the besttt advice, thank you for taking the time to answer :)!

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  2. Good luck with it all. I would say don’t give out your number till you’re definitely going to meet and you feel comfortable with it. Don’t rush the process. And, most importantly, trust your instincts.

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