Happy 25th birthday, future me! You can officially have a quarter life crisis, even though you’ve been saying you’re going through a quarter life crisis since the age of 19.
At 14, you thought no one would ever love you. At 16, you thought you’d never have true friends. At 18, you thought you could never do it alone. At 21, you thought you wouldn’t succeed.
But as the years went by, you proved yourself wrong time and time again. Because someone did love you – even if it didn’t last that long. And you have the best friends you could ever ask for – they’re really almost like angels from heaven to you. And you did it alone when you didn’t have a choice – but you’re never really alone. And you did succeed and you’re still succeeding.
And at 22, a lot of these doubts popped up in my mind again. Will I ever fall in love? Can I do it on my own? Can I succeed?
Well, 25 year old self, I don’t have a whole lot of faith in my present self right now. It’s a very questionable time, there are a lot of moving parts, and I’m just holding on for dear life.
But I do have faith in you. And I have faith in the next two years of my life. Things might be uncertain right now and they might even still be uncertain when you’re 25. You’re still climbing a huge mountain and even if you’re slower or more careful or stop to take some breaks, you are still fighting.
So whether you’re actually having a quarter life crisis and shaving all your hair off, or whether you’re rolling in money and promotions and pet puppies, I’m proud of you.
Not everyone will always be proud of you – you will disappoint people. You’ll let down your family. You’ll fail at work. You’ll ditch your friends. You’ll ignore your boyfriend. But you’ll never disappoint 22 (almost 23) year old me. I have a lot of hope for you. And if you forgot to make the years of 23 to 25 count, it’s time to start again now.
Continue your adventure, I can’t wait to see all the amazing things you will do.
Love,
22 year old you
Dear Your-25-Year-Old-Self: It will all be ok. At your age, there are a million more life-times to live before you’re 30. Enjoy them all and learn all those lessons that suck at the time you’re enduring but will ultimately make you a stronger, better, more resilient person. Dear 25-Year-Old-Rosie…you got this. Keep going.
xx
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Thank you π π just gotta stay positive and keep moving forward
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I like this a lot. Wish I wrote a future blog to my 25 year old self, although blogs didn’t really exist waaaay back then. π
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So you should write one to your future self now!! π
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Good idea
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I’m 24… I went traveling to find myself… But I’ve learnt that learning about who you are is life and not just something to tick off. So enjoy it! π
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Thank you – traveling is a good part of finding yourself but you can find yourself anywhere π
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This was so positive. I always feel like we are kinder to ourselves when we distance ourselves from ‘present’ us (if you know what a mean). I find it really therapeutic to calm myself and assure myself everything will turn out okay.
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I totally get what you mean, I find letters to myself really put things in perspective
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I’m looking forward to the letter your 25 year old self writes to your 23 year old self!
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Me too! We’ll have to wait two years haha
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Lol. I know how to wait patiently. π
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Keep going. I’m 51. I’m finally ok. Sometimes it takes awhile, but you will figure life out. π
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I will try to enjoy the time it really takes to be okay and happy while I’m at it βΊοΈ
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That’s a great answer. Maybe you’re more ok than you think you are. π
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I wish I could write a letter to my past 25 year old self. I’d tell myself to avoid a whole bunch of things that wasted precious time.
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Haha trust me I wish I could write a letter to the past, but maybe then I would be a different person today
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Love this! I’m in my 30s and can totally relate.
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Loved your post.. you are really talented and thoughtful. As someone who just turned 29, I can tell you that things will turn out fine. Worries and tensions will never cease but your determination and integrity will always keep you going and make you a better person as you grow π
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Thank you π that is very reassuring! I’m looking forward to my determination to continue and to keep growing π
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