I love change in the sense that I don’t like to stay in the same place for too long and am always looking to move forward. I hate change in the sense where things I like and got comfortable with can’t stay that way.
Sometimes, life gets busy and we have less time for each other. Whether it’s friends, family, or significant others. And you want to support people through those busy times, but only if you feel supported in return. Otherwise it gets lonely, otherwise you feel like you’re heaving in effort but getting left in the dust.
Busy seasons are an adjustment. Sometimes they last forever, sometimes it’s just for a couple of weeks. And you have to take that change and roll with it and hope that you can either assimilate or that it will go back to normal soon.
When others get busy and when you get busy, it gets lonely. There’s a lot of pressure on both sides to either be supportive or get everything done that you need to. You might lose people along the way and that’s okay. Not everyone is meant to be in your life forever, not everyone can handle the stress that comes with busy schedules and making time.
When life gets busy it’s not just one aspect, it’s the whole thing. It’s your thoughts running a mile a minute, it’s your work demand, it’s your friends and family and significant other not having time for you. It’s a heavy lift that not all of us are cut out for.

Life does get busy and feels like a roller coaster. Hopefully when the busy period is over we can relax and spend time with family & friends.
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yes, hopefully 🙂
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Love this post! Currently I’m dealing with the opposite, I’m always used to being busy it takes a lot from me to adjust being not busy. It’s almost an obstacle on its own.
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Ooooh I get that! My not busy season at work is a total struggle for me
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Nice photo! I want to get some photos like that of me on the run.
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Thanks! The photo is by this photographer: https://www.flickr.com/photos/lattefarsan/
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Wow! I can instantly see that this is a people person!
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I’m trying to figure out how to balance between the busy-ness of life and the much needed mental breaks I need. I haven’t quite mastered that. I hope I do soon. I know other countries have it down to a science so I may to see what they are doing and try to implement that here (which probably means I need to be working for myself. lol)
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That’s how I feel lol I love the way other countries work, I wish it was like that here!
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Yeah, I do have a passport though and the way this country is going, I may use it to leave. lol
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