When I feel like something in my life is not quite right, I try to make big changes. It must be something that takes up a large amount of my day that’s making me feel unsettled, right? I must need a new job, I must need to move, I must need to evaluate my relationships.
But big changes are not something that should be taken lightly and don’t necessarily mean you’ll be happy with the results. The grass isn’t always greener when you start a new job at a new place from scratch. It’s not always greener in a different state. And it’s not always greener being single (definitely not greener being single because dating sucks).
It’s hard not to think about bigger and better things waiting for you, to settle into your life and just accept it. To make small, manageable changes that water your grass instead of hopping over a fence to find a new life.
I think especially when you are feeling like change needs to happen, it doesn’t need to happen fast. We can’t make rash decisions when our minds are unclear in the first place. Bloom where you are planted, stop trying to escape your garden and start trying to make it better.
Wow, thanks for this! Just what I needed to hear!
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It is good that you can evaluate life and come up with a balanced sighting of your self in the world
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thank you! I try to be self aware π
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Isn’t this easier said than done? π
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oh yes, I think I post about this topic like every 3 months just to give myself a reminder!
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That’s good practice, it’s often coming into my head…
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Love that last sentence, Rosie. It’s so important. π
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