If I met me, I wouldn’t like myself.
I think I give a good first impression, if not good then I give off an impression that makes people want to know more about me. My boyfriend once described me as ~mysterious~ when we were friends of friends at college and even when we were first dating.
But unfortunately after that I think it all kind of goes downhill. I don’t have many outright likable traits. I’m not a good listener, I’m a bit selfish.
I have some good deep down traits that people close to me will see. Strong loyalty, a hand to reach to if someone is need of help, intelligent, funny if you like self deprecating humor. The most unlikeable of the likable traits if you ask me.
I also have this fierce competitiveness to be unique, a trait that is well described as a type 4 enneagram. So if I met myself and immediately realized this person is unique too, I would get defensive and insecure. A not so pretty thing to admit, but I like to stand out in one way or another.
So no, I don’t think I’d like myself. I have a clear view of all my flaws and I know I’m not the easiest person to put up with. I was in a sorority of 100 girls and came out of it with 5 friends so I know the likability odds are not in my flavor. I’m okay with not being everyone’s cup of tea and I’m working on loving myself for my flaws.