College is a great time to meet the person you’re going to marry. You might not date them while you’re a freshman or sophomore and still getting the hang of things, but there is a huge possibility you’re going to meet the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You’re constantly going to parties, classes, club meetings, the bar, the gym, and a variety of other places where there are always new people available to you to meet. Chances are, one of your hookups that you enjoyed hanging out with will end up being your soulmate when the time becomes right.
So if you graduated single, did you miss your chance of meeting your future husband/wife?
Sure, you still have some venues to meet new people as a post grad. There’s work, the gym, the bar, and mutual friends. I was watching Say Yes To The Dress the other day and the bride met her husband while driving down the freeway! There’s always possibilities, but is our dating pool much smaller as a post grad?
There are less single people available our age after graduation. Especially in the workforce. You’re going to have a lot of people who are older than you and a small group of people your age. Then, you have to use your super-sight to see if they have a ring on their finger or if they’re even someone you would be interested in if you weren’t so desperately single.
The truth is, it’s going to be harder to find your soulmate after college. But, patience is a great thing and apparently so is waiting to get into a relationship after college.
On the positive side, the longer you wait to get married, the more established and comfortable you’ll be in your own life in order to accept someone else into it.
Whether you’re finding your future in college or after graduation, don’t sweat it. Your happily ever after will come at its own pace, but you didn’t miss your chance by not settling down in college.