I've always had a hard time having anything but a one track mind. If I'm committed to something or someone, then that's that and I can't think any other way. We casually date because dating is hard. Meeting one person at a time, only to be disappointed after the date and having to wait a…
Relationships
Dating Is Depressing
We're often told that all good things must come to an end. Which just means that every beginning has an ending. So it's easy to look at dating with a negative viewpoint instead of a positive one. This is especially true if you have gone through heart break. Every relationship comes to a break up.…
The Annoying Single Friend
Disclaimer: I'm the annoying single friend. Not all single people are annoying. But there comes a time in our singleness where it becomes more of an affliction than just the status of our love life. It literally becomes ailing for us to see other couples making out and we spend our nights swiping through Tinder…
Being Single When Sad Things Happen
Even the most independent of people eventually need someone to lean on. In tough times, you can always turn to your family or close friends. But they don't ever quite match up to the kind of comfort a boyfriend or girlfriend could offer. In general, being single when sad things happen really sucks. You don't…
The People Who Build You Up
Sometimes, people just don't get enough credit. We often see the bad before we can ever see the good. Even if we do see the good, one bad thing will change every pretty thought we've had about someone into something ugly. So here's a big thank you to the people who build me up. It's rare…
Dating Someone Who Is Stuck In The Future
There are people who are attached to their past, people who are desperate to live in the present, and people who are always reaching for the future. People and incidents in my past left my life uncertain. I thought I had it all planned out. I knew when I was going to get married, what…
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I Don’t Know What It’s Like To Be In Love
I often read love stories and wonder how the hell authors come up with them. They fill the pages with this feeling that can jump right into the reader, but it's a feeling many of us have never even experienced in real life. Novels about being in love portray this unreal romance that overcame all…
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