Doing The Long Distance Relationship Thing

Temporarily, my boyfriend is living in New Jersey while I'm in New Hampshire. And while this is only for a month and not really a long distance relationship, it makes me really reflect on the people who are open to doing long distance. My first boyfriend and I were long distance for pretty much our…

10 Things I Never Knew I Needed In A Boyfriend

I was very independent before getting in a relationship and didn't think I'd become so dependent when I got into one. But it's not dependence in a bad way, it's dependence in the way that now I have someone to help, someone to lean on, and someone to be there for me. I didn't know…

Missing Being Single And Missing Being In A Relationship

You always want what you can't have, right? That seems to ring especially true when it comes to relationships. You want the person who doesn't want you or you want to be single again or you want to be in a relationship again. When you're in a relationship, it's natural to miss being single from…

Mid-relationship Crisis

A mid-life crisis is an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early middle age. So I think that would make a mid-relationship crisis an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early mid-relationship. And shout out to whoever googled the term "mid-relationship crisis" and somehow got to my blog…

What It Really Means To Love Someone

I will first start out by saying, everyone loves differently. So I can't speak for everyone, but I can try to speak generically. Loving someone doesn't mean saying "I love you" every morning, evening, and night. It doesn't mean spending all your free time together and thinking about them every minute of the day. It…