If We Were Having Coffee – November

If we were having coffee in November I’d tell you I’m very much over people right now. I could definitely use some time alone, doing nothing but cuddling my dogs. When I get into moods like this it’s hard to not let it affect other parts of my life. It makes work especially more stressful…

Finding Yourself Before Getting In A Relationship

I’ve recently learned that you don't need to be alone in order to grow. It was an idea I was obsessed with after my last break up. And in part, it was true. From age 16-20 I was in a relationship that consumed my whole entire world. So after we broke up, I had no…

Why We Settle And Why I Get It

Relationships are a fragile thing. One string becomes frayed, it gets snagged, and the whole thing unravels into your hands. You never saw it coming. Basically since the start of this blog, I've expressed my fears on settling. Especially settling for someone you don't really love. Settling for less than fireworks, all in romance, and…

If We Were Having Coffee – October

This is a little late (oops) but a lot happened in October, so let me catch you up. October is my favorite month because I LOVE spooky season, but we barely got around to doing all of my favorite spooky season things. I just wasn’t feeling up to it this year and that’s okay, we’ll…

You Could Have Met Your Future Spouse Before You Even Turned 16

I once read that 82% of people meet their future spouse before they even turn 16. I tried doing my research on this one to find out where it came from and everything was unconfirmed.  This is basically a made up statistic. Yet, it resonated with me and sticks with me to this day -…