A lot of people are scared of changing. They are scared of the unknown and they are scared of their loved ones changing. Because when people change, you don't always change with them. But I actually love change. For four years of my life I was the same person, dating the same guy. I went…
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Adulthood Burnout
I. am. tired. I've been in the full time workforce and fully into adulthood for about 4 years now and I'm completely burnt out from it all. And while I know job burnout is something a lot of us suffer from, I have adulthood burnout. I have a lot of conversations with friends where we…
Updated Summer Bucket List
Summer is my favoriteeee season! Because summer is so different when you’re out of school and working, it took me a while to adjust to that summer, care-free feeling. Mostly because I still have a lot of cares, like a lot of them. But I’m making big plans and my list is below – what will…
Spend A Day On Your Own
I grew up being very shy and dependent. I was probably in my late teens before I could even order my own meal at a restaurant, I would always whisper it in my mom’s ear first. I didn’t think I could do anything new on my own, I was terrified at the thought. The first…
A Letter To My College Self
Hey you! You did it! And I am so unbelievably proud of you. I know high school sucked and you've been looking forward to college for the past four years. I also know you currently feel held back, scared, and unsure. It's okay that you made your school choice based off of proximity. You may…
Does Moving Home Mean Moving Backwards?
High school was rough for me. I rebelled against almost everything my parents wanted. I didn't get the grades they liked, didn't join any clubs or sports, had the wrong friends, and did not one thing right. I resented being controlled and watched over all the time - it ate away at me and made…