Who You Were Before You Lost Your Innocence

Losing your innocence is just a side effect of growing up. There's no one certain thing that causes it. It doesn't automatically go away when you turn 13 or when you lose your virginity or when you get dumped for the first time. It all varies from person to person, from age to age, from…

Who You Were Before You Were Broken

We all change, it's inevitable. We grow up, we experience new things, go through phases, meet new people. We take every little experience and slowly it changes us into a different person over time. Sometimes we anticipate change, sometimes we're thrown into it head first. Something that will definitely change a person is heart break.…

Single You Vs. You In A Relationship

People often speak of change so negatively. I can specifically remember multiple conversations throughout middle school, high school, college, and even now where one of my friends looked at me with narrow eyes and said "you've changed" with such disgust. That's what we do, that's what growing up is. You change due to your circumstances.…

We’re Always Changing And It’s Not Always Bad

I've been in this world for 22 years now.  That's approximately 1/4 of a lifetime. To some, it may seem like that's nothing - like I've been here for an hour when they've been here for a year. To people my age, it's a lot and time doesn't seem to be slowing down. In my…