In most cases, you are your own worst enemy. Someone who self sabotages knows what they want and have all the means to get it. For instance, they are on their way into a great relationship and actively do something so that relationship never begins. Usually they do this because something in their past is…
Tag: decisions
When Life Makes Hard Decisions For You
When life decided to lay me off, it also did me a favor in making some decisions we’ve been shying away from. When we moved to New Hampshire, we knew it wasn’t going to be forever. Mostly because my boyfriend’s job is based in New Jersey and in order for him to move up he…
How Do You Commit?
At my age, a lot of decisions I have to make seem like very final decisions. They seem like decisions that will affect the rest of my life. If you're dating, you have to decide if you're going to commit because it's getting to be around "that age" where people want to get married. If…
Making Rash Decisions
I think we all get into a headspace sometimes where we're like this is it, I need to find a new job. But it doesn't always mean we need a new job. Sometimes it just means you need a change, you need a promotion, you need to air your guts to your boss and get…
Why I Don’t Care
I know how to make decisions. I know how to end things when they are going badly and I know how to determine what is making me happy and what is not. Sometimes, though, those decisions are made and some time will pass. That "goodbye" gets twisted up into a bunch of nostalgic feelings that make…