It happens to the best of us, we put up a wall and we have no idea how to knock it down. Someone along the way hurt you enough or broke your heart enough for you to start building brick by brick. An indestructible shield around yourself so that no one could get through like…
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To Those Who Self Sabotage
In most cases, you are your own worst enemy. Someone who self sabotages knows what they want and have all the means to get it. For instance, they are on their way into a great relationship and actively do something so that relationship never begins. Usually they do this because something in their past is…
Unintentional Asshole
Republished from 2015 No matter how much you want someone to change, the truth is they probably won't ever change. They won't ever become the person you thought they had the potential to be, especially if they were content in their ways before they met you. Whether it be a guy or a girl, some…
Having Faith
The world is filled with cynicism and pessimism. The news mostly shows depressing wars abroad or even in our own country. Our generation is consistently put down for not being good enough. Everyone makes the future look so bleak. It's easy to just adopt that attitude. To look at things with a half-empty glass point…
Were You Really In Love With Your First Love?
Your first love more often than not leads to your first heartbreak. It’s a hard lesson most of us have to learn, but in the end it’s for the better. Initially, I blamed my ex. Called him every name in the book, drunk dialed too many times to count, cried like the world was ending,…
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Breaking Up Because I’m Happy
Republished from 4/19/15 Confused? I think a lot of people in our generation are. I'm not going to start talking about how I'm 100% clear on what relationships should be like and how we should live our lives. For the most part, I have no idea. I can only dictate how I'm feeling and go…
Falling In Love With Everyone and Everything
Republished from 4/5/15 Everywhere we turn, there are interesting people. Walk into class, stumble into the bar, open up twitter, and scroll through Instagram. You can find someone you have something in common with in every nook of your life. So how do you choose and how do you settle? I don't think our generation…
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Why I Don’t Want To Be Your Girlfriend
Republished from 4/3/15 I came into college almost two years deep into a relationship that I thought was going to be the rest of my life. I came to find, as most young people do, that forever just isn’t as long as I thought it was going to be. I readjusted and came to realize…
It’s Time To Grow Up
Republished from 4/30/15 Remember in middle school where you would get a boyfriend and as soon as you held his hand for the first time you both would say "I love you!" Your AOL Profiles would say things like 'A&F 4/28 Love you boo'. One time my sixth grade boyfriend even broke up with me…
The Best Of My Coming To Terms With Life Blog Posts
I've had a lotttt of realizations over the past couple of years. Here are some blog posts that cover them! Leave a comment on the original post if you like it! 🙂 Having Faith Why I Don't Care Keeping Your Expectations Low How I Thought I had To Be I Don't Know What I'm Doing…
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