The trouble with people who are over-eager is that we are often over-everything. We are over-thinkers, we are over-dramatic, we over-romanticize, we are overwhelmed. So getting too excited about things just comes with the territory. Because one small possibility opens up so many doors for us. We non stop think about how this could work…
Introvert (noun): Introverts tend to be preoccupied with their own thoughts and feelings and minimize their contact with other people. It's not always easy to spot an introvert, because every once in a while they poke their heads from their shells and rejoin society. They act like going out in a crowd of people is a…
I felt like I was single forever after my last long term relationship. I had made the choice to stay single, mostly because I was so aware of how I was kissing frogs that definitely weren't going to turn into princes any time soon. Every time I tried to date, I just couldn't get comfortable.…
A response to my very old series of endings called I’m Glad It Didn’t Work Out, view it here. This will be a series focused on the beginnings of various relationships, view part 1 and part 2. The first time I saw you we were at a party and I gushed over your cool tattoos. I tried…
A response to my very old series of endings called I’m Glad It Didn’t Work Out, view part 1 and 2 here. This will be a series focused on the beginnings of various relationships, view part 1 here. A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away - I used to be on Tinder. Yikes. I…
A response to my very old series called I'm Glad It Didn't Work Out, view part one here, a series about endings. This will be a series focused on beginnings. I think the very first time we met was freshman year of college, but I can't put my finger on when. It could've been in class,…
You're ignoring your standards. You've been single for so long that you feel like you don't have the right to be picky anymore. But if you're going to be picky about anything, it should probably be about someone you're spending all your time with. Don't date someone just because you can. You aren't open to…
When you're desperate for love, you can basically turn any person into your soul mate. You can build them up in your head to be the perfect match you've been waiting for. And if they do the same, you'll probably get married and possibly live happily ever after, or maybe not so happily ever after. But…
Continue reading ➞ You Haven’t Met The One Because You’re Not Actually Looking
Dating is hard. Essentially you have to sit down to dinner or drinks with someone you barely know and get to know them as fast as you can so you can decide if you want to endure the whole painfully awkward thing all over again. It's really hard to know if a date is going…
Rejection is a part of life. We get rejected from schools, rejected from jobs, rejected from our friends. Rejection is a part of dating. There is no possible way to dive headfirst into the dating world without bumping your head on rejection. There are different forms of being rejected, but I would say the main two…
