Breaking Up With Your Ex’s Family

Break ups are hard no matter what. No matter if you're staying friends, are now mortal enemies, have only been dating a few months, or a few years. They're especially tough if you've started getting fully invested in each other's lives. If his friends are now your friends or if you've basically been adopted into…

Were You Really In Love With Your First Love?

Your first love more often than not leads to your first heartbreak.  It’s a hard lesson most of us have to learn, but in the end it’s for the better. Initially, I blamed my ex.  Called him every name in the book, drunk dialed too many times to count, cried like the world was ending,…

Why Your Best Friends Are Your Actual Soulmates

Republished from 6/16/15 How many times have we heard the Sex and the City quote:  “Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.” It really couldn’t be more true. I spent a large part of my young life in a relationship that I used to replace friendships.  My high school friends weren’t…

Being A Loner Doesn’t Mean I Always Need To Be Alone

I actually have a hard time fully grasping my introverted personality. Sometimes I can get out of my shell and be extroverted, but then I end up having anxiety over every single thing I said and did in that extroverted instance. Sometimes I think it's just easier to be alone. I'm happy there, I'm safe…