We're all perfectionists - there are different degrees - but we all want to be some sort of perfect. We want to look like the girl in the magazine, have a relationship like the one in the movies, excel at our jobs like a millionaire, or be the perfect family member like we see our…
Continue reading ➞ Stop Trying To Impress People Who Don’t Deserve You
I think a lot about how big the world is. How every person I meet is living as complicated and in-depth of a life that I am. Sometimes I feel so wrapped up in my own stuff, my own mind. And as I get older, my social circles get smaller. I’ve lost connection with people…
There are three kinds of people. The people who live in the past, the people who live in the present, and the people who live in the future. I don't think many people live in the present. It's very hard to be completely aware of the moment you're in when you have years of junk…
Republished from 6/16/15 How many times have we heard the Sex and the City quote: “Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.” It really couldn’t be more true. I spent a large part of my young life in a relationship that I used to replace friendships. My high school friends weren’t…
Continue reading ➞ Why Your Best Friends Are Your Actual Soulmates
I actually have a hard time fully grasping my introverted personality. Sometimes I can get out of my shell and be extroverted, but then I end up having anxiety over every single thing I said and did in that extroverted instance. Sometimes I think it's just easier to be alone. I'm happy there, I'm safe…
Continue reading ➞ Being A Loner Doesn’t Mean I Always Need To Be Alone
I still find it hard to believe I graduated college 4 years ago, even hard to believe that I started college 8 years ago. I have a hard time reflecting back onto my middle school years and even my high school years, I tucked a lot of those memories away. I don't think I remember…
This is not an "always the bridesmaid, never the bride" type post - but it is, sorta. I'm at that age. You know. The one where all your friends start getting married so you're taking off once a month for a bachelorette party or wedding or bridal shower. I don't even have a lot of…
When I think "blogger" I think of peppy, well dressed women with perfect hair and perfect lives. I think of people who aren't afraid to network, talk on their Instagram stories, and go after what they want. I think of people who love making new friends and being surrounded by constant interaction. Yet, I'm a…
One thing no one prepared me for was how different friendships become after you leave college. In college, you live with your best friends. You eat with them, go everywhere with them, you rely on them like family. Then *poof* graduation comes and you all have to separate. It's hard to get on the same…
I will be the first to admit that most of my life was spent not being a nice person. I think I tried to be a good person when I was young, but was quickly walked all over in middle school and high school. So I tried being bitchy and it seemed to work better…
