This may be a weird thing to admit, but when I was younger I always had a hard time picturing my future. Like I never thought I'd make it this far. Maybe I'd die young and leave a bittersweet memory, maybe I'd just vanish. But here I am, about to be 29 years old, with…
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Defining Success
The longer I work in a corporate field, the more I realize that I define success much differently than some of the people around me. I've always known that I view life a little differently than most people. Growing up, my parents were sticklers for good grades, for me going to college, and for me…
10 Years Out Of High School
As much as I do not want to admit I've been out of high school for 10 years, it's also nice to reflect on my life. I especially like to reflect on the parts of my life that were not-so-great, so I can see how much I've grown. High school was not good for me.…
Do You Have Imposter Syndrome?
Thanks to a Buzzfeed quiz, I learned about imposter syndrome this week. Wikipedia describes the syndrome as a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a fear of being exposed as a fraud. Even though there is evidence of their accomplishments and competence, those with the syndrome chalk up their success to…
Do You Challenge Yourself?
I'll be the first one to admit I live in a zone of comfort. Comfort has driven most of my life decisions, leading me to where I am today. I like the familiar, I like when things are easy, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. But I very rarely challenge myself. Allllllll the way…
Dating After College
College is a great time to meet the person you're going to marry. You might not date them while you're a freshman or sophomore and still getting the hang of things, but there is a huge possibility you're going to meet the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You're…
Making Time For Your Friends In Your 20’s
When I graduated college, my friends and I all cried over the fact that life would be so different without us living just a hallway away from each other. But I don't think I realized how different it would really be. We all have jobs and relationships. Some people have houses and dogs. Some of…
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Everyone Settles In Some Way
There are different ways that you can settle. You can settle for a job that you might feel uncomfortable with. You can settle for an apartment that you just feel "eh" about. You can settle for a relationship. I experienced one relationship that really made me terrified of settling. And after college I saw a…
A Reflection On 5 Years Out Of College
When someone says to me a year like 2012, I think oh that wasn't long ago. It was just a year or two back, right? But in 2012, I was in my freshman year of college. 2012 was 8 years ago which actually is a lot. I can't believe how much time has passed since…
Making The Most Out of Being Busy
I am a lazy person, I will be the first to admit it. Anyone who knew me in college can tell you that I slept like 12 hours a day, did the bare minimum in my classes, and really reveled in my alone time. I took that with me when I graduated and resisted the…