Nice Guys Don’t Always Finish Last

“Nice guys finish last.” Why do I always hear that? There is some sort of stereotype in the world that says girls like to be treated like dirt, so they intentionally find the guys that are going to hurt them and ignore all of those wonderful ‘nice guys’ who are pining for them. First of…

Cutting Out And Keeping Out Toxic People

Making the decision to remove someone from your life is hard.  You probably have a very lengthy and complicated past with this person. A past that once may have involved happiness and love but began to bring out the worst in you. If someone in your life is putting you down instead of picking you…

I’m A Relationship Cynic

Some relationships fail. Some relationships succeed. But how are you supposed to know what the outcome will be? There are too many variables when it comes to love. The timing, the emotions, the other players. I just feel like I've seen more relationships fail than I've seen succeed. Therefore, I'm a relationship cynic. We're constantly…

I’m In A Relationship With Myself

photo by: https://www.flickr.com/photos/sharif/You're supposed to go to college.  You're supposed to graduate.  You're supposed to get a 9-5 job. You're supposed to be in a relationship. You're supposed to get married.  You're supposed to buy a home. You're supposed to have kids. You're supposed to retired. You're supposed to die. They're unwritten supposed to's, but…