We’re Always Changing And It’s Not Always Bad

I've been in this world for 22 years now.  That's approximately 1/4 of a lifetime. To some, it may seem like that's nothing - like I've been here for an hour when they've been here for a year. To people my age, it's a lot and time doesn't seem to be slowing down. In my…

Does Moving Home Mean Moving Backwards?

High school was rough for me.  I rebelled against almost everything my parents wanted.  I didn't get the grades they liked, didn't join any clubs or sports, had the wrong friends, and did not one thing right.  I resented being controlled and watched over all the time - it ate away at me and made…

I’m In A Relationship With Myself

photo by: https://www.flickr.com/photos/sharif/You're supposed to go to college.  You're supposed to graduate.  You're supposed to get a 9-5 job. You're supposed to be in a relationship. You're supposed to get married.  You're supposed to buy a home. You're supposed to have kids. You're supposed to retired. You're supposed to die. They're unwritten supposed to's, but…

6 Reasons Why Your Pet Is Better Than Most People

1. They're always down to cuddle. You could put a ton of effort into finding a relationship that might not even work out or you could just buy a cuddly cat that's always down to snooze. 2. They're always waiting for you when you get home. Your pet is so reliable! They spend most of…

Dating Someone Who Is Stuck In The Future

There are people who are attached to their past, people who are desperate to live in the present, and people who are always reaching for the future. People and incidents in my past left my life uncertain.  I thought I had it all planned out.  I knew when I was going to get married, what…