Break ups can be different depending on what stage of your life you're in. When you're in high school, break ups are over-dramatized and earth shattering. In college, they're the thing that turns you towards things you might have not done without a broken heart. After college, they make you evaluate your life. Because when…
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Age Doesn’t Define Your Life
I'm at that point in my life where everyone I know is either engaged or talking about getting engaged. People say "oh you're just at that age!" But it's actually the furthest thing from what I want right now. And I don't think my age has anything to do with why I should be getting…
The Hate That Can Come From Love
Love can change us. Young love shapes us, quick love pleases us, the love that's here to stay grounds us. But I don't think anything changes you more than the hate that can come from love when everything goes wrong. I have loved people in situations that didn't end poorly. We lost touch and I…
It’s Not Always 50/50
I recently read some Twitter wisdom that really stuck with me. When it comes to relationships, everyday won’t be 50/50. Some days will, but some days all he will have is 10 and you gotta give 90 but it’s okay. Because some days all you’ll have is 10 and he’ll give 90. I rarely feel…
10 Things I Never Knew I Needed In A Boyfriend
I was very independent before getting in a relationship and didn't think I'd become so dependent when I got into one. But it's not dependence in a bad way, it's dependence in the way that now I have someone to help, someone to lean on, and someone to be there for me. I didn't know…
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Mid-relationship Crisis
A mid-life crisis is an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early middle age. So I think that would make a mid-relationship crisis an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early mid-relationship. And shout out to whoever googled the term "mid-relationship crisis" and somehow got to my blog…
I Don’t Believe In Soulmates
My high school boyfriend and I once laid in the grass on a baseball field at night looking up at the stars and he told me I was his soulmate.....gag. I don't believe in there being only one person out there for you. That there is one person that your soul is destined for and…
