An Open Letter From A Millennial Who Didn’t Understand Why Anyone Would Want To Buy A House But Now Understands

I guess this is growing up. I've been pretty adamant the past couple years that I wouldn't be buying a house any time soon. Why would anyone settle down? Why wouldn’t you want to move constantly and explore? It’s because moving suckssssss. I've lived in 7 places in the last 5 years. At first, it…

Do You Have Imposter Syndrome?

Thanks to a Buzzfeed quiz, I learned about imposter syndrome this week. Wikipedia describes the syndrome as a psychological pattern in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and has a  fear of being exposed as a fraud. Even though there is evidence of their accomplishments and competence, those with the syndrome chalk up their success to…

Your Bad Relationship Didn’t Waste Your Time

I think we all experience some sort of regret after a break up. It just feels like you spent so much of your life dedicated to one person when you could have been doing other things. You could have been traveling, you could have been spending more time with your friends and family, you could…

The Pressure Of Long Term Relationships

My first serious relationship was 4 years long and when I say serious, I took it very seriously. I pictured marriage and kids. Planned where we'd live, where I'd go to college, and how our lives would be. At that point in my life, I would frequently say "why bother being in a relationship with…