I'm not really a forgive and forget kind of person. More specifically, I have a hard time forgetting. As an overthinker, the things I do and the things other people do to me really stick with me. And if someone hurts me, it stays with me for years and years. I've encountered a certain type…
Tag: negativity
I Wish I Could Care Less
There are a lot of things that happen to me that I can't just let roll of my back. But I wish I could. Some people are so good at that. Things happen, they take it in, and they move on. But not me, I carry it with me forever. I once overheard a coworker…
Negativity Is Unproductive
When I was promoted two years ago, I felt a lot of pressure to be confident, in charge, and to show what I knew. A lot of the time my assertiveness ended up coming off as aggressive and negative. I was still learning how to be comfortable in a new role and I now know…
Disconnecting
Lately I’ve felt very uninspired by social media, and this is coming from a girl whose TikTok obsessed was leading to hours of scrolling. Usually I like social media because I can learn new things, create fun content, and see happy people. And lately that hasn’t really been the case, everything has just been so…
Highs And Lows
You know when you ask kids what they learned in school that day and they say I don't know? Well, I feel like a kid again because every time someone asks me how work was or what I did that day, I just don't have a lot to say. Mostly because I don't really want…
Give Yourself A Break
If you read my post where I documented all of my negative thoughts in 24 hours, you'll know that I have a lot of negative thoughts about myself. We are so hard on ourselves. And this is on top of the weight that the world is already putting on our shoulders. Responsibilities are always going…
24 Hours Of Negative Thoughts
Yesterday, I decided to write down every negative thought I had about myself or the things I can't control. Because I know I'm greeting life's challenges with a bad attitude and I want to change it, at least as much as I can. Here's every bad thing I thought in a day, tomorrow I will…