Taking it slow sounds easy enough. You're trying to ease into a new relationship, tip toe around some things to avoid rushing in too fast and getting hurt. There's nothing wrong with taking it slow. In fact, I would encourage it. Falling head over heels in love sounds nice and all - but it also…
I feel like I have been through so many versions of myself. I was once shy, cold, and moody in high school. I was a push-over and boyfriend obsessed my first half of college. I was reckless and couldn't be caught when I graduated college. And now I am settled, finding new parts of myself,…
I think we all experience some sort of regret after a break up. It just feels like you spent so much of your life dedicated to one person when you could have been doing other things. You could have been traveling, you could have been spending more time with your friends and family, you could…
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Relationships are a fragile thing. One string becomes frayed, it gets snagged, and the whole thing unravels into your hands. You never saw it coming. Basically since the start of this blog, I've expressed my fears on settling. Especially settling for someone you don't really love. Settling for less than fireworks, all in romance, and…
A mid-life crisis is an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early middle age. So I think that would make a mid-relationship crisis an emotional crisis of identity and self-confidence that can occur in early mid-relationship. I think it's very easy to have an identity crisis in a relationship. Before I started…
When someone says to me a year like 2012, I think oh that wasn't long ago. It was just a year or two back, right? But in 2012, I was in my freshman year of college. 2012 was 8 years ago which actually is a lot. I can't believe how much time has passed since…
I don't want to speak for all millennials, but I think we view careers a little differently than the older generations. When I first got out of college, all I knew is that I needed to get a job. I took what I could get but it was really entry-level and I knew I could…
Well, April was a weird month. I spent the whole month working from home and not going many places. Here's a recap! Favorite show: The Challenge Favorite memory: Making pasta with my boyfriend, we learned together how to make pasta and gnocchi from scratch and it was a nice thing to do together! Celebrating Kaya's birthday…
I don't like my exes, not a single one of them. My relationships/spurts of dating/long-time hook ups ended poorly often. I might've not liked them even before we broke up. Sometimes I stopped liking them during the break up process. Other times, we were friendly for a while, but I ultimately stopped liking them. Mostly…
Turns out, I wasn't lying to myself. My go-to excuses in life are that I'm too tired or I don't have the time. With the stay at home orders, I have more time on my hands. My work day is kind of scattered, I never know when things will pop up. So that leaves some…
