The phrase goes: forgive and forget. Stop feeling the resent you feel towards someone and put it in the back of your mind. That person's mistake that caused you anger or hurt is gone forever and you move on with your life. I've never really been one to forgive because a lot of people ask…
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Rejection: The Ghoster And The Ghosted
Ghosting (verb): The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested. Let me start out…
I Want To Be Alone But I Don’t Want To Be Alone
Reposted from 2016 I didn't really know who I was until a few years ago. Internally, throughout my teen years, I had a strong sense of self. I knew what I wanted but just didn't know how to get it. I couldn't externalize what I was feeling internally which made me very lost. I thought…
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How An Introvert Flirts
Introvert (noun): Introverts tend to be preoccupied with their own thoughts and feelings and minimize their contact with other people. It's not always easy to spot an introvert, because every once in a while they poke their heads from their shells and rejoin society. They act like going out in a crowd of people is a…
How Our Generation Is Always Speed Dating
Republished from 6/13/15 We are sometimes called the "hookup culture" because of our lack of commitment. We kiss first, ask questions wayyyyyy later. Relationships aren't exactly what we're looking for right now and one reason behind this is because we are always speed dating. Not literally, we don't move from chair to chair at a…
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Chivalry Isn’t Dead – It Just Changed
Republished from 5/30/15 I often hear women talking about the way they would like to be treated by men. They want "old school" romance where they're picked up at their front door, their car door is opened for them, and their meal is paid for. They want their guy to be chivalrous - a knight in shining…
Give Independent People Time To Miss You
People that have fully embraced independence just don't function the same as an average person. Independent people fully accept being alone, their personal space, and doing things on their own. They don't expect help from anyone. They don't expect anyone else to come around and encroach on their personal time. It's not like they don't…
You Haven’t Met The One Because You’re Not Actually Looking
When you're desperate for love, you can basically turn any person into your soul mate. You can build them up in your head to be the perfect match you've been waiting for. And if they do the same, you'll probably get married and possibly live happily ever after, or maybe not so happily ever after. But…
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How To Know If Your Date Went Well
Dating is hard. Essentially you have to sit down to dinner or drinks with someone you barely know and get to know them as fast as you can so you can decide if you want to endure the whole painfully awkward thing all over again. It's really hard to know if a date is going…