Republished from 4/19/15 Confused? I think a lot of people in our generation are. I'm not going to start talking about how I'm 100% clear on what relationships should be like and how we should live our lives. For the most part, I have no idea. I can only dictate how I'm feeling and go…
You'd think recognizing your own emotions would be easy, but it's not for many reasons. We often put other people's emotions before our own, we get blinded by more dominant emotions, or we've just learned to ignore them. It's hard to recognize unhappiness because we're trying so hard to be happy. To admit unhappiness is…
There are plenty of fish in the sea, but chances are you are already on someone's hook. We all have that one person who lives deep in the cracks of our pushed-away memories. It's the person that hurt us badly, but we still love. It's the person who will always cause us to backslide. This…
I want to start living a more definite life. I don't know's, maybe's, possibly's and eventually's just aren't cutting it anymore. The questions that come up in life can't be answered with an "I don't know." That is our way of avoiding the question and putting off making an actual decision. My ex used to…
Sometimes, due to human nature, we just have a problem with ending something we've gotten comfortable with. Even though we know what we're doing isn't right for us, it would just be more of a hassle to learn to live a new way. One of my biggest fears is to put myself in a relationship…
