College is a great time to meet the person you're going to marry. You might not date them while you're a freshman or sophomore and still getting the hang of things, but there is a huge possibility you're going to meet the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You're…
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Fixing Your Problems With A Relationship
In middle school, having a boyfriend was the only thing that was important. You're in your awkward phase and just need someone to tell you you're pretty. You're still forming friendships and you need someone who is a constant. Your favorite emo songs sing about heartbreak and falling in love and you want to be…
Why I Don’t Want To Be Your Girlfriend
Republished from 4/3/15 I came into college almost two years deep into a relationship that I thought was going to be the rest of my life. I came to find, as most young people do, that forever just isn’t as long as I thought it was going to be. I readjusted and came to realize…
Why I Didn’t Miss College After Graduation
College was the best four years of my life, hands down. I hated high school and turned it all around in college. But four years was really all I needed. In some ways, college felt short. As I put on my graduation cap, it felt like I had just moved into a dorm I hated…
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A Letter To My College Self
Hey you! You did it! And I am so unbelievably proud of you. I know high school sucked and you've been looking forward to college for the past four years. I also know you currently feel held back, scared, and unsure. It's okay that you made your school choice based off of proximity. You may…
Moving Won’t Solve Your Problems
Ever since high school I would talk about how I was going to get out of here. It started with wanting to go to Canada, to wanting to go to college in Ireland, to getting accepted to all the schools I applied for in North Carolina. I ultimately stayed in New Jersey because of my…
How Postgrads Feel When Everyone Goes Back To School
For a very small part of this summer, I thought graduating was the best thing that happened to me. I was very wrong. College, without a doubt, was the best four years of my life. I couldn't have asked for anything more from the school I chose. I left with a degree that I felt…
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Does Moving Home Mean Moving Backwards?
High school was rough for me. I rebelled against almost everything my parents wanted. I didn't get the grades they liked, didn't join any clubs or sports, had the wrong friends, and did not one thing right. I resented being controlled and watched over all the time - it ate away at me and made…
Succeeding In Today’s Schools
I've resisted school ever since I was young. Waking up early only to sit at a desk for hours a day just didn't make sense to me. I never put in my full effort. Not in middle school, not in high school, and not in college. I paid attention as little as I needed to…