I have recently been struck by the feeling that I’ll never get to do all the things I want to do. What brought this on? Books. I’ve been back into reading lately and buying more books, borrowing books from the library, grabbing books from little free libraries that I come across…and keep getting this sinking…
All The Things We’ll Never Get To Do
Finding Yourself Before Getting In A Relationship
I’ve recently learned that you don't need to be alone in order to grow. It was an idea I was obsessed with after my last break up. And in part, it was true. From age 16-20 I was in a relationship that consumed my whole entire world. So after we broke up, I had no…
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Workism
The term workism is used when a person bases their identity and life purpose around work. Some people see it as a replacement for religion - the belief that work can provide you with things like community and meaning. I’ve fallen into the trap of workism for reasons I understand, and for reasons I don’t.…
Healing Your Inner Child
My favorite thing about being adult is doing all the things I didn’t get to do as a kid. I can buy the things I want, get piercings and tattoos, dye my hair pink, spend as much as I want at the carnival, go to different fun events, stay up late watching movies. More recently,…
Accepting The Love You Think You Deserve
Once upon a time I got dumped and just did not know how to deal. I felt like I had failed the relationship, my boyfriend, myself. I thought I didn't really deserve to fall in love again - like I had missed my chance. And time and time again I was thrown into dating scenarios where…
I Took The Long Way
Something I’ve really improved on in the last few years is giving people some grace. And it’s mostly because I want people to give me grace. We all go through life differently. Some of us face challenges early on, some face them later in life. And all of our challenges, and how they affect us,…
My 10 Year Plan
My life in its current form is fine. But there are SO many things about it that I really don’t find sustainable. I’m 30 and I’ve learned so much about myself and what I want. But it’s really hard to put those things into action, because of all the real world things that get in…
If We Were Having Coffee – February
If we were having coffee this month, I’d tell you not much has really changed since January. And I think that’s a good thing in some aspects, and a bad thing in others. On one hand, I’m still trying to find hobbies that fulfill me and make plans with my friends to get me out…
Celebrate All The Things
My husband and I are DINKs - dual income, no kids. I did not make up this term, TikTok enlightened me. Our celebratory moments have always looked a little different to everyone else’s. We are a bit more low key, like to keep things private, and so our life milestones have reflected that. When we…
Something’s Not Quite Right
If you’ve been here for a while, doubting my career will be nothing new to you. I’ve been out of college for almost 9 years and have been working since then. I chose my career path because it was what came easiest to me. I’m sure most people choose their career similarly. And while there…