I haven't been able to get myself to the gym more than once a week lately and I always feel guilty about it. But there are times when you want to go to the gym and you're too lazy and then there are times you just don't want to go. And I just don't feel…
Tag: self esteem
Making The First Move
Guys deserve a lot of credit for making the first move. It's just what is expected in society, that guys will approach a girl first. They'll ask for their number and have to make the phone call. They ask her to dance or out on a date. It's mostly all up to the guy to…
Take More Selfies
I think I'm in the minority when I say people need to take MORE pictures of themselves. In a time of influencer culture and kids filming Tiktoks in the streets, I'm one of those people that says "good for them." It's hard to be self-confident. I think it comes in waves, you feel really good…
Judge Less, Compliment More
Seriously, if everyone was as nice as the girls I run into drunkenly in the bar bathroom, my self-esteem would be through the roof. But it's not. It's not for most of us. We are constantly trying to live up to what we see on the magazine covers or on the popular Instagram pages. We…
An Appearance Slump
I don't know if I should chalk it up to weather or laziness, but I've been in a slump with my appearance. I rarely do my hair, just throw it up in a pony or let it be its frizzy, wavy self. I put eyeliner on maybe once a week, my make up is always…
A Selfie A Day
Last week I wrote a post called Take More Selfies. Self love is hard. It's way easier to get gratification from others, and even then that's not always easy. Sometimes I'll find myself with the front camera open, looking for my best angle and then close the app saying "I'm too ugly for a selfie."…